All the butterflies and the head rush that are usually there during the beginning of a romantic affair slowly wear off as times goes by and you find yourself wanting to take a step back from all that but not call things off yet. In almost all romantic relationships, the beginning stages are always filled with lots of chemistry and bonding that calls for the need to spend much time together. As time goes by, the feeling of slowing things down kicks in and makes it quite awkward and hard to say it as it might end up into a break-up. This is very normal and should not be a cause of turmoil to you as there are essential guidelines on how you can do that and not end up destroying things between you and the significant other. The article below is about the things that you need to do so as to get to slow things down and not end up breaking things up.
The ideal thing to begin with as you look to slow things down and not call things off is by thinking it over. For the reason that you are actually considering to slow things down means that there is something that is taking aware of the comfort and fun of it all and you need to identify the what and why. Take your time and think it through so that you be sure that you are addressing the real issue when you get to address it. If you are growing less fond of her by the day, be open with her and tell her about it giving her assurances. If it is still in you being with her then address then face the issue directly for the betterment of the relation.
Having thought it over and established the main reason why you want to slow things down, talk it out with her. It us very important that you get to communicate than just talk and exchange words and pleasantries. It is normal to expect some tears and hard emotional moment as ladies are quite delicate when it comes to matters love and relationships and that is why you should be quick to reassure her that you are only looking to slow things down and not end things between you.
Having come to an agreement as adults, go forth to set new boundaries so that the new pace agreed upon can get to work. Set date nights that are rather not spontaneous and random so that you can get to plan things and make the time and moment special for both of you.
With the boundaries set, you should work on ensuring that you stick and be loyal to them.